When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.

A touching story I received from a friend.

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the
school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.

Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.

Where is the natural order of things in my son?

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.’

Then he told the following story:

Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and

warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the
plate,
the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!

Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it

to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.

By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball . the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to
third!

Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

 

I have not researched the authenticity of this story and frankly don't care.  Even if it's fiction it's still a nice story and worthy of reading with a powerful message.  Have a nice day!

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5 commentsNevin Williams, Conventional,jumbo & FHA • February 25 2010 10:05AM

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Nevin,

I have heard this story before, regardless of its provenance true or made up, it is a wonderful story.  Stories such as yours do happen all the time.  When we live in Napa one the private schools elected a homecoming queen (a girl on scholarship who did not look like a homecoming queen, she supplemented the family's income by helping her mother clean houses).  The whole school votes as does the faculty, the usual suspects who are the types were some of the candidates, and they decided that she should be the one because she was a nice person and they always got the titles.  The mothers of these girls took her along to hairdressers, clothing stores, etc, and introduced her to the best of the best and pitched in to buy her all the needed stuff.  Our photographer friend volunteered her services for the big day and afterwards.

It was an amazing day and a victory day for everyone who participated.  I believe that in every town, every day, there are amazing acts of kindness who don't see the light of day, because folks are too busy focusing on everything else.

 

 

 

Posted by Ron & Alexandra Seigel (Luxury Real Estate Marketing) (ra@napaconsultants.com) 5 months ago

Hi Ron and Alexandra -  You never know if stories are a sham or true via e-mail but I didn't care!  It's a nice story, even if made up and reminds us that sometimes losing to allow less fortunate people a chance at glory is much more satisfying.  It made my day and thanks for stopping by to say hi!

 

By the way, I used to zip through Napa all of the time when I had a vacation home at The Sea Ranch.  Love it out there- you guys have it made!  : )

Posted by Nevin Williams, Conventional,jumbo & FHA (First Priority Financial,specialize in jumbo & conventional) 5 months ago

As you mentioned in your post, regardless of the validity of this story, it is truly heartwarming, worth reading the entire thing, and packs a very powerful message in it.

Posted by Craig Rutman North Carolina (Raleigh Area) Realtor (Home Buyer and Seller Specialist) 5 months ago

The father was a catalyst, and I'm working on a post about that.  True story or not, the father was doing what he could.  We tend to want to point out the weakness, differences, "they're not like us" that are perceived in others . . . and yet, when given an opporunity, they can truly become our strength.

Posted by Carla Muss-Jacobs Principal Broker/Owner EBA Portland LLC | www.EBAPortland.com | (Exclusive Buyers Agent Beaverton Portland) 5 months ago

Craig - I got the message loud and clear.  great story

Carla - Wow!  Good stuff Carla

Posted by Nevin Williams, Conventional,jumbo & FHA (First Priority Financial,specialize in jumbo & conventional) 5 months ago

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